Tuesday, September 07, 2004
definitions
a friend of mine posed this question to me 3 weeks ago amidst our 8 min discussion on relationships: "what exactly is an open relationship?"does it mean you can still see other people?
does it simply mean a monogamous relationship but without promises of the future?
does it simply mean nothing at all?
i couldn't find an answer to his question cos we all have different definitions. the irony of it all. what if it started as "open" and midway it seemed to mean more than "open"? what are we to do then? are we to ignore and pretend nothing's changed? or do we speak up and do something bout it? (i'm prone to keeping thoughts to myself actually) but would doin something put an end to whatever happy days we have? why do we always find ourselves in grey situations where we're left feeling confused, sad and a tad broken?
bee wrote this at 2:59 PM
