Friday, October 29, 2004
the thing we call "relative"
we've (or i've) never been really buddy with my paternal relatives. uncouth and only concerned about self-interests, it's never occured to me how thoughtless they really were until the past week.with my aunt's passing barely a month ago, i've two nicompoot paternal relatives calling my mom to attend birthday and wedding parties. HULLO. they knew about mom having a tough time losing her only sister and these fucking morons didn't even call to express their condolences much less attend the funeral itself. and note: one aunt's particularly superstitious and doesn't attend other's weddings nor funerals. and now they have the cheek to tell my mom it's ok to come for the party cos females, once married, are considered "out of their own family". you NO LONGER belong to your own family. WHAT IN FUCKING HELL IS THAT?
i know chinese traditions believe in a woman "marrying" into her man's family et cetera but that does NOT equate that you no longer have relations/ emotions tagged to the ones who've seen you through the toughest times of your life?
being the usual softie that mom is, she kept her anger in check and was browbeaten again by these two selfish morons. WHAT IS WRONG WITH THESE PEOPLE???? why do they keep picking on mom? their selfishness is completely and utterly unbelievable. who gives a shit bout respect when they don't even have the decency to show our family any.
i've decided to insert laxatives in their drinks for CNY next year. shit asses literally.
bee wrote this at 9:03 AM
