Monday, June 12, 2006
about liars
if there's one particular trait she has low tolerance for, its lying.should you (mr x) wish to do it, do it smartly and not in her face. do not go round spreading confidential information thinking the secret ends there. cos it won't, asshole. come on. do you take her as a five year old? she's worked in this industry longer than you did BRO. unfortunately, you were in the right place at the right time and have the good fortune of some godfather promoting you sooner than you deserve. don't try pulling shit over her eyes especially when she knows the people who fed the info back to her are good reliable friends. and don't puh-lease her after she confronts you, denying you ever did such a thing and that it's not your style.
incident 1 (8 Jun Thurs)
got a call from good trusty friend who just met mr x and found some "discrepancies" during the chat. ms bee then found out mr x knew bout her leaving cos he openly mentioned it during the chat (though he didn't reveal her name). that's fine with her cos it's not an issue bout what happens outside the agency.
incident 2 (8 Jun Thurs late evening)
she was asked by a senior colleague K if she was "leaving". K looked kinda upset that she wasn't told this info personally from ms bee. but come on, the letter of offer from the other agency wasn't signed at that point so why would she even reveal anything cept to her two trusty female teammates? anyhow, she seriously suspected mr x of blabbing again and so she decided to ask K what exactly did mr x mention. apparently, K's smart enough to deny and say its nothing, probably to avoid getting loudmouth into further trouble. well, ms bee ain't convinced and decided to take another route. she told K about her impending departure and guess what? K accidently exclaimed, "oh, so that means mr x's info is really quite updated huh?"
hmmm. if mr x didn't tell K anything, how the heck would she know if the info is updated or not???????
anyhow, ms bee sent in the OFFICIAL resignation letter on 9 jun friday.
incident 3 (10 Jun Sat)
boss told mr x bout the resignation (obviously not knowing mr x already had FIRST hand info from God knows where). nothing wrong it seems BUT mr x just had to rile her further by IMing her teammate A on saturday asking her if she's planning to leave too seeing how two teammates (ms bee and T) have thrown their letters in. A got kinda pissed and asked him why did he go round telling others about ms bee's resignation before she even tendered? well, mr x gave such a classic lying answer. "please, i didn't know bout it till yesterday when boss told me bel tendered."
so... if you really didn't know it before the boss told you (on 9 jun friday), how could you have leaked the P&C info on 8 jun thursday? the least you could do is be honest bout it and apologise instead of denying it saying "this gossipy nature is against your character". lying and bragging to a third party outside the agency is your own business, we all do that in order to paint a better picture of ourselves at times, but lying to your teammate is unforgivable. she's doubted your personality and character before but now, it's purely affirmation.
she believes in karma. what goes round comes round, always be nice to people on your way up cos you never know who you might meet on your way down. so knock off the high and mighty attitude asshole. at the rate you're going, the lies are gonna bite you in your ass before you know it so watch it mister. learn to play the game smartly cos it's a fucking small industry here.
bee wrote this at 9:30 AM
